Sunday, August 16, 2009
One more thing
And I'm not doing this to whine. It's just that, if I talk to him about this, I run the risk of making him think I need it again, since whenever I tell him a spanking was unfair, that's what happens. So this blog is my only place to vent, which is not the same was whining. It isn't. I promise you, it isn't. Damn it. Maybe it's the same, but it doesn't feel the same. Oh, well.
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Awww, honey, I know what you mean. It isn't right when you feel you have a genuine belief that a spanking is unfair. Davey isn't like that....fortunately! He only spanks me in a punishment way after we have discussed the reason, and I have the opportunity to put my side.
Had this happened to us, he would have gotten me inside, and asked why I did it; we then would have talked it through; if I remained calm and respectful, it would probably have finished with a warning that if I did it again, I could expect punishment...but if I had appeared unrepentant/disrespectful during the discussion, (he HATES me to raise my voice or be sarcastic etc)then he would have punished me, not for the "goosing" but for the attitude!
Maybe when things have calmed down, and you are both being loving again, you could ask him respectfully if you could discuss the whole goosing situation with him...but dont let yourself sound critical or recriminatory(is that a word?? lol)!
Why are you spanked again for telling him that you feel a spanking was unfair? If you have submitted to a spanking and been punished for the offense why are you spanked again for not agreeing with the punishment? You are simply stating your opinion. Every submissive wife does not agree with every punishment. Submission requires that you accept his decisions not necessarily agree with them. What if you do not understand his logic or his thinking? What if he is wrong? Does he feel you have to change your thinking and become mindless when it comes to his punishment decisions?
Your ridiculis. Trouble with you submissive woman is that you aren't submissive. Your not suppose to questin his judgment. I would had laid it on you real good too for wrasslin around like a man with him. Your lucky it wasn't me. My woman knows better than to wrassle around with me like that. Does he read this blog? I hope he sees this and lays it on you real good again.
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Hi Zelda,
Today is Love OUr Lurkers Day, so I'm visiting my favorite blogs and wanted to say hi. I look forward to your next post.
Maryann
Damn it Zelda!
I don't get why you are feeling so.
Life is to be enjoyed, no matte what, you must keep it up day after day.
It was my message to you, I hope you get how deep it is
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