We had tears tonight. I haven't blogged in so long, but I wanted to share this with someone, so it's out there now. A friend of mine in the spanking community surmised at one point that tears come when you feel out of control. That certainly applied tonight.
We were using a leather implement we don't usually use and it did the dreaded wrap around my hip. When I torqued my body in response to this, Roger scolded me for getting out of position. At that point, I felt helpless. And there were tears. It was delightfully real.
For those who are wondering: Yes, I was being punished. Yes, I deserved it. And, no. You won't get any more details. ;)
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- Zelda
- I met my husband, Roger, in 2000 and we were married in 2005. We're both in our thirties, with no kids. Domestic discipline is a sober affair for us, even though we have cute, almost silly, methods of practicing it. But I assure you that, despite how it might seem to the contrary, when Roger disciplines me, it is for real and we both take it very seriously. My husband is the most morally centered person I've ever met. I married him because of his character and his goodness. I hope that someday this will rub off on me and I can grow up to be just like him!
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8 comments:
Real is good. It's good to know you're still around.
PK
Zelda,
Thanks for posting. So nice to see you again.
Maryann
Zelda...lovely to hear from you again.
Glad you got there in the end! Hugs xxxxxxxxxx
Does he still "goose" you even though you really don't like it? Did he apoligize for it? How did you two make up?
Do you know what else is real? Prison! That is where guys who "punish" go to get "punished" (no leather but real flesh)by other men. If he likes pain he will love being a women abuser in prison.
Hi, I am new to your blog. I was reading through your pages and enjoyed feeling like I wasn't the only one out there. My husband and I participate in this lifestyle not only because in some cases it can be used as a turn on, but it is usually more to be taken seriously with us. We have been together for 20 yrs, have three kids and are currently trying to navigate this kind of lifestyle with having others in the house. I noticed that your blogging tapered off and would hate to think it was because of idiot posters like the one who posted on May 16th, 2011. What I always wonder is what are THEY ashamed of because they are obviously searching through these types of blogs for some reason, lol... I do hope that you are able to continue blogging... Is there some way for you to censor the posts so that you feel more comfortable? (if the negative posts are the reason you are no longer blogging) I know I took offense to what Mr/Mrs May 16th said. My husband is not abusive, I have been there and can say from experience that there is a difference between a punch in the face and a loving paddling. And my husband got into this entire thing because I pushed and prodded for years! I had dropped all hope and about 7 yrs later he approached me with it. He in no way deserves to go to prison, geesh. I could go on and on... but I won't, lol. I just wanted to post and let you know that I was relieved to find your blog... most that I find are based around sex and that isn't what draws me to this lifestyle.. although it is a perk ;)
Hope to see you post soon...
Angie
I'm an argentinian girl that started reading your blog a couple of days ago and just fell in love with it. I'ld like to ask you many questions about DD relationships, in view of starting one the day i got married. This is my MSN, if you could add me i'ld be very happy!
dc_tcg@hotmail.com. Sorry, forgott the most important part...!! Greeting to every Zelda's readers.
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